You get men who go all out to get into shape for their ladies. Me, I don’t hold with that. I just work on my arms. Keep them big. Make the ladies feel safe. Completely disregard the rest of my body. When you hold that woman at night and she checks your arms, any doubts she has about your ability to protect her in the event of an altercation, they just disappear. Every now and then you just make sure you lose your temper over minor things so she thinks you might have anger management issues. That way, you ever get into a confrontation, she’ll fear for the other man and pull you away. You never get found out.